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Sunday, May 26, 2013

A traditional wedding

Bangladeshi wedding at Dhaka

From ancient China, there was a saying that the three most delightful moments in life come with success in the imperial examination, marriage and birth of a son. A marriage will be decided not by the love of a young couple, but their parents' wishes. Due to the vast history and long-term scope, there are different customs followed in different places, but they are generally the same. We can still attend a traditional wedding in the country.

In ancient times it was very important to follow a basic principle of three letters and six labels. The three letters were betrothal letter, gift letter with a list of wedding gifts and the letter used the day when the groom has met his wife at his home.

1. The engagement letter confirms the formal agreement of marriage and is sent by the groom's family to the bride's family. This letter usually accompanies the initial donations to the family of the bride.

2. gift letter including a list of gifts and official gifts to the bride's family. In fact, it is a gift registry, which records and describes the value of the gifts.

3. Letter of marriage is given to the family of today the bride's wedding day. This is a confirmation of the act of making the bride in the groom's family.

Six labels (the traditional stages of the process of marriage) to go through the whole process of the wedding ceremony, they are:

1. Proposal

This process should practice match-maker. When the boy's parents to make a game, which they call the broker to bring them into his house. Matchmaker formally submit the request by the client to identify his parents. Many unmarried young people do not see and know each other until their wedding day.

2. Date of birth corresponding

If the potential bride's parents to accept a marriage, a match-maker asks the girl's name, date of birth and the birth of a time to ask the teller to predict whether this guy was capable of. If the couple's names, dates of birth and date of birth are not now in conflict, marriage, moving to the next step. Otherwise, the suitors will stop.

3. Submit Engagement Gifts

When a game is expected to be a promising, then the groom's family organize a matchmaker to present betrothal gifts, engagement letter connector, the bride's family.

4. The presentation of wedding gifts

When the letter of appointment and accepted the gifts, the groom's family sends gifts to his family prolific symbol of respect and kindness to his family and the ability to provide a good life for a girl.

5. Choosing a Wedding Date

A fortune teller will be consulted to select an auspicious date to hold the wedding ceremony.

6. Wedding

This is obviously the most important step of marriage. Selected days of firecrackers, gongs and drums mark the beginning of the procession, led by a groom. Accompanying the groom was a child, your children's future bride's sedan, and the nurse with lanterns and banners, musicians, and the lion "dance" or unicorn. The bride wore a seat on the back door. The chair was a heavy curtains to prevent the bride to see everything that might be out of luck. When the bride is escorted from the house of the groom, the wedding ceremony begins.

The wedding ceremony itself was simple. The spouses have brought to the family altar, where the couple pays kowtows of heaven and earth, parents and others in line. The ceremony is proceeding in accordance with the instructions to the director and the audience applauded.

Then there is a large party of relatives and to help the wedding. newlywed couple continued to drink wine out of wedlock. In general, they are obliged to cross arms sip of wine and then go to gulp down cups. In addition, the toast to the guests are charged with.

Then be taken to the bridal chamber. "Rowdy" friends and their parents came to bother the young couple and play a trick on her boyfriend. These games will ease tensions funny and stupid, as in ancient times to the newlyweds never met each other before the wedding! The festive atmosphere also promotes closeness among all family members and outside the Community.

Traditionally, the newlyweds will return to visit the parents of the girlfriend of one to three days after the wedding. Will be welcomed with a banquet.

customs of traditional marriage are so complicated, it is not surprising that the label has been changed and simplified. But the core back. The main purpose of marriage customs was to keep the concepts of participation and strengthen both families and provide each other with many descendants. Respect for parents and ancestors, omens to encourage fertility and wealth, social and financial commitments of the two families of betrothal, extensive gift giving etiquette, and the incorporation of the bride's family husband are recurring elements that have survived time and change.

 

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A traditional wedding is a post from: Traveling China



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